It was Eid celebrations once again, Eid has become notorious
for waves of sexual harassment
whether downtown Cairo or elsewhere, or even in other governorates which we
hardly know anything about.
Things were different this time. Various initiatives and announced they are stepping up their response and trying to deal with sexual harassment. There were attempts to document and stop sexual harassment on the street and the metro. Moreover, media has covered sexual harassment duing Eid more extensively. Cameras were out on the street to capture photos of guys stepping their boundaries. More positively, the debate and writing on the ugly phenomenon seemed to have surpassed times past.
Did all those analyses capture the reality of sexual harassment? I don't think so.
Things were different this time. Various initiatives and announced they are stepping up their response and trying to deal with sexual harassment. There were attempts to document and stop sexual harassment on the street and the metro. Moreover, media has covered sexual harassment duing Eid more extensively. Cameras were out on the street to capture photos of guys stepping their boundaries. More positively, the debate and writing on the ugly phenomenon seemed to have surpassed times past.
Did all those analyses capture the reality of sexual harassment? I don't think so.
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Many of those who approach the subject restrict the etiology in one of two
options: first, women's clothing and their lack of decent cover-up (these
arguments sometimes extends to attributing it to the mere presence of women on
the street). Secondly, sexual repression and frustration
which our male youth suffer from.
In fact, I don't think these two interpretations differ much from each other; they're like two sides of one coin. Proponents of this theory hold that women are sexual objects, more like a magnet or a moving vessel. Since youth do not have the means to get married at an early age, they're sexually frustrated and beholding these sexual vessels (women) moving around on the street would provoke men and hence they have to take as much as possible out o that vessel to fulfill their needs.
Why does sexual harassment occur and why has it become to spread? Indeed our youth are repressed, but what type of repression? Most o us obtain education at an educational system that produces disfigured humans, unprepared to face life's challenges, and becomes met with unmerciful labor market. It's possible to give a lot of statistics about unemployment rate, but numbers won't capture the experience of seekers of decent jobs.
More importantly, are young people listened to? are young people invested in? how able are young people to participate in social and political life? The rate was 3% before the revolution and I am sure it has risen but still far from satisfying. What do we expect after this recipe of marginalization and systemic failure? Frustration, violence and religious extremism.
The problem is sexual frustration or women's clothes. The truth is men in our society feel "emasculated". Men in our country feel oppressed. The oppressor oppressed whoever weaker than them. And we've had our share of it; centuries of colonization and decades of military dictatorship. Men take it out on women (ie the weaker).
Last year, I was part of a research team on youth attitudes towards sexual harassment. What struck me was the depth of misconceptions regarding sexual harassment. Although a lot of them denounce it, many thought girls are the ones responsible for it and even enjoy it. Dangerously enough, they show no understanding of women's experience of violence whether on short or long term.
In fact, I don't think these two interpretations differ much from each other; they're like two sides of one coin. Proponents of this theory hold that women are sexual objects, more like a magnet or a moving vessel. Since youth do not have the means to get married at an early age, they're sexually frustrated and beholding these sexual vessels (women) moving around on the street would provoke men and hence they have to take as much as possible out o that vessel to fulfill their needs.
Why does sexual harassment occur and why has it become to spread? Indeed our youth are repressed, but what type of repression? Most o us obtain education at an educational system that produces disfigured humans, unprepared to face life's challenges, and becomes met with unmerciful labor market. It's possible to give a lot of statistics about unemployment rate, but numbers won't capture the experience of seekers of decent jobs.
More importantly, are young people listened to? are young people invested in? how able are young people to participate in social and political life? The rate was 3% before the revolution and I am sure it has risen but still far from satisfying. What do we expect after this recipe of marginalization and systemic failure? Frustration, violence and religious extremism.
The problem is sexual frustration or women's clothes. The truth is men in our society feel "emasculated". Men in our country feel oppressed. The oppressor oppressed whoever weaker than them. And we've had our share of it; centuries of colonization and decades of military dictatorship. Men take it out on women (ie the weaker).
Last year, I was part of a research team on youth attitudes towards sexual harassment. What struck me was the depth of misconceptions regarding sexual harassment. Although a lot of them denounce it, many thought girls are the ones responsible for it and even enjoy it. Dangerously enough, they show no understanding of women's experience of violence whether on short or long term.
Most of us don’t appreciate the sense of weakness, fear, and
powerlessness that harassment creates whether it was verbal or physical. Most of
us don’t appreciate that a certain gaze to a woman’s body could make her feel
as senseless object. So what would it feel like if their hands reach out to her
most private parts of the body with an intent to humiliate and showoff of
power, and not for pleasure? If you wish to know more about such experience,
you better listen to the women themselves.
"Control yourself, not my clothes" |
Is there a solution? Of course. Our hope is that our people breaks
free from its shackles and restore its dignity. Education must be reformed both
in terms of curricula and methodology. Curricula must include human rights
education, gender equality, and sexuality education. Youth must be truly included
in all decision-making related to their lives; not just using them as
window-dressing as governments like to do.
Many talk of increasing legal penalties. To be honest I am
quite skeptical of such suggestions. We have a lot of laws that are just ink on
paper without enforcement. Many talk of increasing police presence on the
streets. This may sound reasonable, but what about policemen who actually
harass women? What would encourage women to go report the incidents, especially
with the huge trust gap between people and police?
Legislation is significant, but more importantly, society has
to be engaged. The existence of laws expresses the state’s commitment towards a
certain issue. Now we live in the time of the people, community initiatives are
key to create change; and many of those have recently surfaced.
Other suggestions such as facilitating marriage or changing
women clothing are quite preposterous.
Two more points I would like to highlight:
1- Sexual harassment is not the only form of violence women
are subjected to in our society. There is also domestic violence, female genital
cutting, early and forced marriages, financial violence, etc. the root of those problems are not much
different that harassment. These issues are not any less important that street
harassment. We must not limit women issues to what she faces in the public
space only because there are much more violations.
2- It’s only women who suffer from street harassment, it has
become mainstreamed. Anyone who looks different or vulnerable is liable to
harassment. Foreigners, black people, people who dress in a nonconforming way,
people with disability, and the list goes on.
The first step in facing the problem is acknowledging it and
dealing with it in a mature way. Safety and physical and mental integrity are
rights to everyone without discrimination.
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